I myself have gone through the struggles of having a bland conversation with someone on many occasions. And I’m not going to lie, a lot of times it has been with introverts. I love us introverts but sometimes we just don’t have anything to say or don’t have the energy to say anything. I get tired easily in conversations or bored when it is more small talk. But there are some extroverts that are just really good at making you feel like you will never get tired of talking. I have been blessed to know some of these people and they have been just as weird as me so I felt comfortable talking their ears off because it was mutual.
Extroverts help us introverts get out/ Expand our comfort zone, sometimes without even noticing it. Introverts are more inclined to stay at home but extroverts will want to go do something fun. There have been times that I look back on my life and regretted not going out to have fun. So it’s nice to have someone to push you to do the things that you wanted to do but didn’t know you wanted them yet.
Another good thing is extroverts always have something to say. This can be either a good thing or a bad thing to us introverts but in this case it is good. It’s nice to have someone who will fill the air sometimes and make you feel comfortable. Some of us introverts have trouble breaking the ice quickly and an extrovert will introduce themselves very quickly.
Sometimes I forget that everyone is not like me. Through out my whole life I’ve been avoiding conversations and avoiding being the first person to speak. And I guess that it is because I thought this is what people wanted and that it was okay in other peoples eyes. But know that I am growing up I realize that when you don’t speak to someone it might hurt there feelings. The first time I realized that people actually wanted to know me was so confusing to me. I don’t know I guess it is because I thought I had nothing to say, who knows. But when an extrovert showed that they wanted to talk to me, it made me happy because I felt like no one wanted to know me and I was scared to speak.
But this is why I like extroverts, and probably most introverts can relate on this in some way. Even if it isn’t the main reasons why you love them.
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